Setting Myself Free
The Chimes of a Survivor’s Heart"
A journey through the shadows of the past toward the light of unconditional love and faith.
About the Book
The Story:
“From the ‘ugly green antique dresser’ of childhood trauma to the resilience found in East Texas roots, Setting Myself Free is a raw account of a life interrupted by abuse and confusion. It explores the complexities of adoption, the weight of being the ‘black sheep,’ and the struggle to find identity amidst chaos. Ultimately, it is a celebration of the ‘beautiful relationship’ found when you finally decide you deserve to be loved”.
Overcoming the Blur: Processing a past that the brain tried to filter out.
Generational Strength: Honoring a mother’s style and a father’s respect while forging a new path.
Faith as an Anchor: Finding peace in the Lord when the world feels like a curse.
Visuals
Childhood Portraits:
Images representing the innocence that was challenged.
Style & Class:
Photos reflecting her mother’s 100 pairs of shoes and her father’s piano shop to show the family’s heritage.
The Turning Point:
The imagery of dragonflies and waterfalls to symbolize transformation and “setting myself free”.
Testimonials
What struck me most was the author’s resilience. She describes a childhood that felt like a 'blur,' yet her writing is sharp and focused when it comes to her faith. It’s rare to find a memoir that handles such heavy topics—abuse, abandonment, and identity—with such a strong focus on the healing power of God. A must-read for survivors.
Hyna Le Book ReaderThis isn't just a book about trauma; it’s a book about legacy. I loved the descriptions of her parents—her mother’s impeccable style and her father’s respect in the community. It shows that even when we are 'done wrong,' we can still carry forward the good parts of our heritage while breaking the cycles that hurt us. Truly moving.
Doshik Roe Book ReaderAbout The Author:
Falena is a survivor, a mother, and a woman of deep faith. Raised between Catholic school prayers and the harsh realities of the world, she has spent her life learning what it truly means to be safe. After years of journaling to clear the ‘clutter’ of the past, she is opening her heart to help others who are in the same situation. She believes that no matter what you’ve been through, God has a new level of blessing waiting for you”
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Falena’s story is a raw and necessary look at the shadows many children are forced to live in. Reading about the 'ugly green antique dresser' broke my heart, but seeing her rise from those memories into a life of grace and motherhood was incredibly inspiring. This book is a beacon for anyone trying to set themselves free from a past they didn't choose.
John Doe Book Reader